For me one of the hardest things to do is control my memory. More importantly my short term memory has been the problem. When engaged in a conversation I try and listen to the best of my ability but sometimes it can be hard to decide what is important to them and what is important to me. But when you are trying to repeat back what you heard in order to get it straight. But there are times when selective hearing also comes into play when you tend to hear that you want to hear in order to prove your point, I tend to do that a lot as well. I have to try and really retain what the person is saying in order to compose a good counter argument or response. But from time to time it is like I am just waiting to talk and I don’t really hear what the person is saying.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Week 9, Chapter 7, Question 1
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Hey Jrod, I really enjoyed reading your posts. I have had some similar experiences; instead of listening attentively for what have been said, I prepare myself on what I am going to say. For many, listening can be challenging; especially during arguments or discussing on different opinions. During conversation, if there is any disagreement, it might very well be a difficult condition to listen without interrupting the other person. Although, I usually want to be heard without getting interrupted, at times, it is very difficult for me to wait and let the other person complete his or her arguments. In addition, I also have notice that in many instances, when people don’t listen, they repeat the same concept in different wording.
ReplyDeleteJrod, I also have a hard time with my memory. I also have a tendency to use selective hearing. I find sometimes in my classes I will be taking notes, but what I find important isn't the points that my teacher is trying to actively express. This causes me trouble when I go back and try to study for tests, but the information that I thought was important isn't what I should have been writing down. I sometimes get irritated when people repeat themselves because they aren't listening. I know I am guilty of this sometimes, but I try to make the effort to at least not repeat myself.
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